Forming constraints

Nowadays it’s hard to find people with their own intellect.

According to my perspective as I have observed, everyone is used to follow crowd or what others do.

Instead of imitating someone it is better idea to follow what you personally think on a particular thing while taking decisions.

One can get influenced by someone to build their own intellect. But influencing and imitating are totally different concepts which people don’t understand.

Here I have got an amazing way which will make your ideas unique.

Forming constraints in your life can prove to be very beneficiary in forming intellectual skills.

As your constraints will restrict you in something you don’t believe in.

WHAT ARE CONSTRAINTS?

    

•     Constraints is basically the set of rules.

•      The most familiar word known to us beside constraints is ethics.   

•          Ethics are very important for our life.  

•          So constraints for the life are the rules we want to follow in our life.

This will allow you to think deeply (or out of the box) while taking decisions, eventually avoiding imitation.

So constraints play an important role in decision making.

So making constraints in your life is important.

Here are 10 constraints you can follow in your life and bring a change in yourself:

    

                     1.     Be Honest

•          If you are not honest to anybody then at least don’t cheat also.

•          Constraints can be like deciding not to copy in exams, this constraint will give you power     that will make you capable of gaining sufficient knowledge before your exams.

•          This makes you noble.

  

    2.     Avoid Blind Faith 

•           Blind faith just doesn’t mean following the orthodox traditions.

•   At least be honest to yourself don’t make yourself fool believing in the things that won’t occur at all.

•           If you have faith in something then think of the worst possibility also, that why it won’t occur otherwise your faith can turn to blind faith.

•          Blind faith makes us depressed.

  

                        3.     Keep your words

•          You should always keep your word or follow it as much as possible.

•          This will make you a trustworthy person.

•          People will never take you for granted, eventually increasing your value.

                    4.     Share your views

•          I personally believe that we should share our ideas or views with someone we trust before taking any important decision in our life.

•         Share with your elders if they are understanding, if possible share them with your parents or you can share with your friends also.

•        This is because they can give you proper guidance and they can guide you for your mistakes or show you a way to correct them.

                    

                    5.     Be passionate

•           Any work you do, do it with passion.

•          Devote your time, heart and whatever required to make it successful.

•          Never give up even if you get a scope of failure, just go on working until it gets finished.

•          Never stop your work in midway.

                    

                    6.     Be a well-wisher

•          You get the sweetest fruit when you help one without any selfish motive.

•          Never think inauspicious or be brutal to someone, wish good for others and do good to others.

•          If you decide to help someone help them until their task is accomplished, don’t leave them in midway.

•           This will develop humanity in you.

                    7.     Stop excuses

•          We generally give excuses if we do something wrong.

•          So giving excuses defines that you have done something wrong even if you haven’t done.

•          Instead of giving excuses, accept the things you have done and try to rectify your mistakes.

•          Mistakes also creates opportunity, about which I will discuss in my future blogs.

                    8.     Be an encourager

•          I think you should always encourage the one doing good work and even when someone is working hard to get something.

•          If you cannot encourage someone then you do not have any right to discourage them.

•          Discouraging a person makes them weak and hopeless, leading to their failure.

                    9.     Never be an escapist

•          Some people always run away from responsibilities and situations.

•          But according to my belief difficult situations and responsibility makes us stronger and experienced about life.

•          So always face the reality.

                   10.   Giving up negativity

•          Be aware of negative thoughts and people.

•          Be away of negativity.

•          Always think positively.

•          Thinking positively gives you hope, decreases fear and gives you strength to face the things and the world.

The above given are example of constraints that you can form in your life. You can form constraints in your life according to your requirements. Everyone will have different constraints for themselves which will make them different.

Remember one thing don’t ever try to fulfill one of your constraints violating the other one.

So make your constraints thinking very deeply.

These constraints add meaning to your life and have advantages too.

There are other advantages also of forming constraints in your life which I will discuss in my next blog.