Compliments are the real earning for a person

• Generally, we all work hard to earn money.

• We study, learn the basics, get the knowledge, then we do the job or set up a business.

• We do all these things for earning money.

• But, is earning money enough? Does it complete our responsibility? Or does it gives self-satisfaction?

• No, because if we work with this motive we will be soon fed up.

• We should work with the thought of passing the knowledge to others or give our best of whatever we have.

• We also like when someone praises us for our work, our honesty, etc.

When will one praise you?

• Your customers or your boss will only praise you if you are honest.

• Submit your order or work before deadlines in your business and job respectively.

• Be perfect in your work.

• Be fast in your service and work.

• Treat others kindly and be gentle by your speech.

• Have respect for your work.

• Never cheat others.

Outcome of following the above points:

• People will not only praise you.

• You will be having a special identity.

• You and your company or your business or the place where you job will get name and fame.

• Others will prefer to work with you.

• People will be more willing to take work from your company.

• This increases your customers and eventually you or your company earn a profit.

“If you run behind something, that thing goes away from you,

But if you be capable, that thing runs behind you. ”

 

Advantages of praising:

• If you praise someone for his/her work, they will give you the best service, they will be happy by your compliments.

• By this, they will also serve their other customer in the best way and will give the best service to them.

• People will try to be more honest.

Real Life Example:

• For all the film stars and singers, their fans and following are very important.

• They may work for earning.

• But their real earning is their fans and followings.

• They are really happy to see their increasing number of fans.

Try this:

• Whenever you take help of somebody or you go to buy something, give compliments to the people with your pure and true heart.

• People will love it and you will definitely set up their mood.

• They will be happy.

• Try to give compliments to everyone surrounding you.

• This will spread the vibrations of happiness and positivity around you.

(Image Courtesy of Divya Prasad)

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People want is: Love

• Everyone wants love. 

• Everyone wishes that people show love, kindness and respect to them.

• Almost all of us are very lucky that we got family, friends etc. who loves us the most.

• But there are some children or people, may be homeless, deprived of love, care and respect.

Children

• Our society on one hand says stop child labor and on other hand says earn money, don’t beg for it.

• So the question comes what should a helpless child, having no elder person in family and having responsibility of the siblings do? Earn by self and do work or beg for it?

• More to that, all of us can’t donate money all the time, then how could we help them?

• If we can’t donate them money or stop their labor then at least we can be kind and lovable to them.

• As a teenager or a normal person we can give them respect, as they are not begging and they are performing their responsibility nicely in the way they can.

• They might have to do work for family or for their studies.

• So talk to them, give them suggestions for their future, help them in the way you can.

• These children may belong to the backward class, so people speak roughly with them, scold them or shout at them to take work from them.

• But instead, they deserve love and kindness.

• If we talk to them softly with love and smile, they will get happiness as they may be forced to work by responsibility and are highly deprived of love.

• So when you behave nicely with them it will give happiness to them and you.

Old

• We find many old age people surround us, earning their lively hood.

• They sometimes feel lonely, as they have already worked for their entire life and still they are working in their old age.

• We even don’t know their conditions that, they live with their family or alone.

• But if we give them love they will be very happy.

• We should talk to them.

• Ask about their health, this gives them a comfort that there is one more person in their life caring for them.

• All the old people have gathered much experience about life, we can learn many things from them.

• If we talk to them, they share things about their past life which may bring smile on their face.

• Their history is just awesome, we come to know how they used to live in past.

My experience in Real life:

• I went to my friend’s sister’s marriage.

• They kept two cook for 10 to 15 days, one lady-cook was an adult and the other was an Old lady.

• I observed that my friend used to call them and gave them respect as their own family member.

• Especially she used to call the old-cook like her own grandparent.

• As a result they used to cook such a delicious food like they cook for their own family member and also they used to talk to my friend like their own daughter.

Outcome

• Giving love, kindness and respect, not only gives them happiness and satisfaction but, it gives happiness to you also.

• They get relief that someone is there with them and they are not alone.

• In their lonely life they get a person with whom they can talk and share.

• They get a person who bring smile on their face.

• I believe that if you give love to others you also get love, more to that you get blessings and you will never be lonely in your life as you understand others loneliness

• You will be always happy by making others smile.

Try this:

• Almost everyone has some kind of worry.

• Give a smile to an unknown person, if you find them in tension or worry.

• By this action of yours, they will pass their whole day wondering, why you smiled at them without knowing them.

• As a result, they will forget their worry and tension.

(Image courtesy of Divya Prasad)